MARINE CORPS AIR STATION IWAKUNI, Japan -- As a child, I always admired my father when he entered the living room in his dress blues. From the shiny medals to the red seam along the pant leg, I was in love with the uniform. I only saw it once a year and looked forward to the moment when my mother would cling to his arm for photos. Her curled hair and fancy jewelry adorned her ball gown and she always took my breath away. It was a mystery to me as to where they were going. The only thing I did know was that it was “for daddy’s job.”
I grew to understand it was in fact a celebration of the Marine Corp’s Birthday. I’m now a senior in high school. A few weeks ago, my father approached my 13-year-old sister Abby and I and asked if we’d be interested in attending the ball. Now keep in mind, this would be my first time. My mother explained it would be a good experience for the family before I went to college. With that being said, I began to count down the days.
Just like any other day, it was there before I knew it. I was dressed in an old prom dress and I curled my hair and added a few accessories; just as I had seen my mother do so many times before.
As we all entered the gym, I couldn’t help but stare. There were so many Marines, all dressed in the Blues I had always loved. Before I knew it, the ceremony began and we all took our seats. A video grabbed everyone’s attention while the Commandant of the Marine Corps, General James F. Amos, gave an inspirational message on why Marine’s should be proud of their service. As if the video wasn’t motivating enough, Marines gave their best “Oohrah” once it ended, showcasing their pride.
Soon, the guest speaker appeared, Mr. Masayuki Matsumuro. I noticed a tear slowly roll down my cheek and after glancing at the people around me, I found out that his life story created emotion for everyone else as well. Although he originally seemed frail with old age, he described experiences in his life that made him humble and courageous. The fact he overcame his anger of losing his family in the bombing of Hiroshima and found inspiration in an American soldier who showed a tremendous amount of integrity so many years ago, stirred that entire gym. The moment his speech ended, the room gave a heartfelt and lengthy standing ovation.
Of course, the annual rituals are dinner as well as hours of dancing. However, it wasn’t the disco lights and dancing bodies that caught my eye. Instead it was the Marines laughing, full of joy. It was the wives as they danced in slow circles with their brave husbands.
For me, it wasn’t just a party. It was a celebration for every man and woman that has ever fought for our country, our freedom, and our people. My heart swelled with pride as I glanced over at my dad and all the other Marines standing at attention as our National Ensign marched on. I believe as a high school student, it was a once in a lifetime experience.
Sgt. Maj. Ferral, Headquarters and Headquarters Squadron sergeant major, attended the Marine Corps Ball with his wife and 12-year-old daughter, Kaitlin. “I’ve been to twenty six Marine Corps Balls, and once my daughter was 3-years-old, we began taking her to the ball as well,” said Ferral. “I think that she’s going to have a better understanding of what I do, and the significance of what the Marine Corps Birthday is. So, I think that high school students and children in general should definitely go.”
Although there weren’t many high school (or even middle school students) attending the ball, it was a great experience. I believe that all students should go to the ball with their family members in order to gain a new perspective. It’s a night to appreciate our parents, and every sacrifice they make.